Tip 10: Don't buy her affection. If you're going to bring her a bunch of roses, costly presents, or take her to the most expensive eating house in town at your first date she'll think you're trying to buy her affection and that's not appealing (unless she's after your money).
Tip 9: Don't try to be somebody else. Be yourself, because if you want to be with her she has to accept you the way you really are.
Tip 8: Romance is important. Romance is not old-fashioned, but many guys underrate it today, and unfortunately, girls really need it. You don't have to start writing verses now, but you can invite her to a romantic boat ride at the end of the date or at to the lowest degree invite her to a similar venture. Also be polite, lead the way and open doors.
Tip 7: Have a plan B. You always need some handy back up plans, just in case. When you call her to decide the dating place, propose her several alternatives instead of just one. Think about discussion topics, so you avoid the moments when you don't know what to say anymore.
Tip 6: Find a suitable dating site. You want to talk and interact with her plenty so don't choose a place where you can't talk to her much (movies) or you can't get too close to her (restaurant). Propose her a dancing evening, or playing pool or skating, or anything that permits you to interact more with her.
Tip 5: How you look. You don't have to put on a tie, instead choose clothes that fit you well and make you feel comfortable. Shaving and a little cologne we'll be good. Don't be late for the date
Never be late. You should arrive a few minutes earlier.
Tip 4: Be playful. Flirt with her from time to time
Flirting with her will compliment her if you don't do it too much. While interacting, playing or walking try to touch her gradually from the palms to her shoulders and back. If she responds, try to kiss her, first a small kiss on the cheek, then another small kiss on her mouth. If she resists, start talking with her for a minute and then try kissing her again. You could get a pleasant irresistible make out session or no kiss at all, but if she refuses, at least she'll think about it until your next date.
Tip 3: Body language. Maintain eye contact with her. It shows concern and self-confidence. Relax yourself, and if on a chair, lean back a bit. Don't invade her private space too much, that's an uncontrolled or desperate behaviour.
Tip 2: Girls like humor. Make her laugh and have fun. Girls treasure sense of humor in a guy more than many other values. However, you don't have to become the clown of the night; that's more exhausting than appealing.
Tip 1: Learn to listen. Listen to what she says; observe the way she moves and how she reacts to your what you say and do. She'll feel you're empathic and she'll feel connected with you. Her words and her gestures will give you all the clues you need to turn a mere first date into a second date and a future relationship.
With these first date tips for guys you can have a fantastic dating experience. All these first date tips are important but if you understand their priority also, your performances will improve drastically.
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